Terry’s Review of “Left Neglected” by Lisa Genova

If You Loved Still Alice, Left Neglected is a Must Read!

The Vegas Book ClubWith the precision of the neuroscientist that she is, Lisa Genova takes us on another unforgettable journey. Once again she creates an unforgettable character in Sarah Nickerson as she struggles to cope with a life-altering condition known as left neglect.

It’s easy for many to identify with Sarah as she is a working mom with a high stress job as VP of Human Resources at a large company. Add her three lovable children and Sarah has an overfilled plate. Her life is altered when she is in a car accident and is left with a debilitating handicap; she doesn’t know that she has a left side! This was a very difficult concept to understand until Sarah explains to her husband, “Okay, now what if I told you that everything you see is only half of everything that’s really here? What if I told you to turn your head and look at the other half? Where would you look?” That was my “aha” moment in the book.

As Sarah struggles to regain her independence, she is forced to slow down and evaluate her life. Her journey is a powerful one as she examines her relationships with her husband, children, and her estranged mother. As I read, I found that I was also thinking about my relationships and my priorities. I love a book that makes you think and this was certainly a soul-searcher.

Left Neglected is not on my book club’s list this year but it should be! If you’ve read the book, please comment as I’d love to have a “discussion” about it. If you haven’t, I suggest that you get to the nearest book store or library and read it. My book club,Vegas, did read Still Alice and I gave it a 10. Left Neglected gets the same high score.

Just a little caution: Have some tissues ready for the last twenty pages!!

Reading “House Rules” by Jodi Picoult

Picoult Gives Us Insight to Asperger’s

House Rules by Jody PicoultThanks to my daughter-in-law, Alissa, for lending this book to me! Alissa loved “House Rules” and highly recommended it. So, I borrowed it and stayed up WAY past my bedtime reading!

If you know anything about Picoult, you know that she often deals with hot social issues. “House Rules” tackles the issue of how people perceive those who have autism and Asperger’s Syndrome. Her main character, Jacob, is 18 and was diagnosed with Asperger’s shortly after he turned two. This allows Picoult an opportunity to bring up the theory that vaccines contribute to autism.

I love books that teach me something. I checked many of the traits that Picoult attributed to Asperger’s in “House Rules” and she was right on. For me, one of the most profound sentences in the book is when Jacob states, “I am not autistic. I have autism”. Really makes you think, doesn’t it?

Beyond all of the learning is an emotional story of a young man who is constantly misunderstood and his mother who dedicates her life to advocating for him. Much like “My Sister’s Keeper”, there is an attention-lacking sibling who is used to create some interesting plot twists. Unlike that book, I wasn’t shocked at the end.

“House Rules” is worth a read for its educational value and the roller coaster ride of emotions that Jodi Picoult took me on. It would make a great discussion book for your book club. Have you read the book? If so, let me know what you thought!

Vegas Dishes on “Cutting for Stone”

“Cutting for Stone” by Abraham Verghese

The Vegas Book ClubI was hooked by page 7! “Because, Marion, you are an instrument of God. Don’t leave the instrument sitting in its case, my son. Play! Leave no part of your instrument unexplored. Why settle for “Three Blind Mice” when you can play the ‘Gloria’?” With a main character, Matron’s, words, I just knew that the characters would be rich and struggling to achieve their dreams. I was not disappointed.

The women of Vegas were not disappointed, either. Cutting For Stone encompasses all the things that a great novel should. Spanning 50 years, it’s a tale that takes us from India to Africa to the United States. The characters are deep and well-developed. They evoke strong emotion in the reader and most of us didn’t want the book to end…we wanted to know more!  Three members were missing yesterday, but the book received five 10’s and two 9.5’s.

Cutting for Stone is a story of love, loss, hope, faith, betrayal and forgiveness. It provided the basis for a great book club discussion. I really hope that my readers and their book clubs will consider this book. My Vegas friends and I promise that you won’t be disappointed.

Our September selection is The Zookeeper’s Wife: A War Story by Diane Ackerman. Read along with us and let us know what you think!

Bantering About “Still Alice”

Vegas Discusses “Still Alice”

The Vegas Book ClubWhen our book club, Vegas, decided to read Still Alice by Lisa Genova, I was a little skeptical. My thoughts were something like, “Here we go. Harvard neuroscientist writes a book about Alzheimer’s. It’s going to be dry and boring”. I have never been so wrong. (Well, maybe once , but that’s another story!) This is the first time in all my years as a book club member that I have given a book a 10.

Alice is a Harvard professor who is diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer’s disease. The story is written from her perspective which can be totally terrifying. We, as women of a certain age, identified with many of her feelings and fears. We cried when she said to her husband, “I miss me”. We laughed when she had trouble with her sports bra. We were moved when she held her grandchild. We were frightened as we watched this brilliant woman deteriorate.

One of our members shared stories of a friend’s mother who had  early onset Alzheimer’s. She felt that Still Alice accurately portrayed a family’s experience as they struggle to deal with the debilitating disease. She and I spoke on the phone this morning and decided that we should call an emergency meeting because there was so much more to discuss. All Vegas members rated Still Alice 9.5 or 10 – a new high for our club!

If you haven’t read Still Alice, we highly recommend it. If you have, please share your thoughts here. Our next selection is the Pulitzer Prize winning The Shipping News by E. Annie Proulx. Read along with us!

“South of Broad” Book Banter

South of Broad by Pat Conroy

The Vegas Book Club“Nothing happens by accident. I learned this the hard way, long before I knew that the hard way was the only path to true, certain knowledge.” So begins Chapter 1 of Pat Conroy’s South of Broad. Set in Charleston, South Carolina, the novel spans several decades. On that very first page, Conroy sucked me in with a series of events that urged me to read on to find out the whole story.

The narrator is Leopold Bloom King, aka “Toad”, who is struggling with the fact that he found his brother dead from a suicide and finding out that his mother is a former nun.  It is an intricately woven tale of relationships between parents and children, husbands and wives, and lifelong friendships originally forged by need but growing in to love and trust.

The novel is written in a nonlinear fashion that jumps back and forth from 1969 to 1990. Conroy includes many plotlines and themes including AIDS, classism, adultery, love, lust and racism. When there is so much going on in a book, I often find myself rereading sections. Not so with South of Broad. Expertly composed, it easily carries you along through the years.
 
The descriptions throughout the book always make you feel “in the moment” but never more so than in his chapters about Hurricane Hugo. I was so engrossed that I was a little taken aback when I looked up and it was still a sun shiny day. As I neared the final chapters, I felt a little smug and thought that I had everything figured out. WHAM! A plot twist at the end that I never saw coming. I love it when I’m surprised…it keeps me humble!

I strongly recommend South of Broad. This was my first Pat Conroy novel but it won’t be my last.  I’m going to suggest one of his other titles for my book club. If you’ve read them, help me out. Which would you suggest for a book club selection?

Does “The Postmistress” Deliver?

Vegas Discusses The Postmistress

Reviews of Sarah Blake’s The Postmistress hailed it as a must-read for book clubs. The women of “Vegas” did not agree! On our scale of 1 to 10, it received an average of 6.8 with one member giving it a 4. Several members didn’t give a rating because they just couldn’t finish the book. Not because they’re slackers (!) but due to lack of interest.

We felt that the publicity for the book which asks “What would happen if a postmistress chose not to deliver the mail?” was misleading. It created an expectation that was totally unfulfilled. In fairness, it did provide for some great dialog on honesty, trust and relationships.

It was said that while the characters were well-developed, no one really cared what happened. Blake failed to give us an emotional attachment to her characters. We understood them and their motivations but didn’t “feel” for them. Most felt that it was a reading assignment rather than a reading pleasure. Even so, we don’t condone the abandonment of a book club book! I think we may have to initiate some penalties.

But that didn’t stop us from having fun! Our hostess, one of our newer members, prepared a great lunch which included a recipe from Emeril. And she told us she couldn’t cook! It was a beautiful day so we took dessert to the deck and discussed the book outside.

I look forward to the laughter and friendship in my book club. Those are the smiling faces of “Vegas” in the photo. The book discussions deepen our relationships as we talk about things that don’t come up in normal conversations. If you think that you’d like to start a group, contact me. I have some great resources.

Up next for us is Still Alice, a debut novel about a 50-year-old woman’s sudden descent into early onset Alzheimer’s disease. It was written by first-time author Lisa Genova, who holds a Ph. D in neuroscience from Harvard University. If you’ve read it, please post your thoughts. If not, you can count on me to fill you in next month!

Meeting Margaret Atwood

This article was written by my daughter, Kristin Floress, Ph.D. Kristin is an Assistant Professor at the University of Wisconsin, Stevens Point, College of Natural Resources. I was SO jealous that she was meeting Margaret Atwood. Thanks, Kristin, for sharing your experience!

Lunch and Converstion with Margaret Atwood

 Margaret Atwood has been one of my favorite authors since I was a teenager.  Her first book I read was The Edible Woman . Given to me by a family friend who is really more like family (Hi, Auntie Worl!), I still have this paperback, and re-read it, as I do many books by favorite authors, every year or so.  I have read countless other books and short stories she has authored, and plan on exploring some of her husband’s (Graeme Gibson) work in the future. 

So why am I telling you all of this?  Because not only do I love Atwood’s work, but I was lucky enough to be able to have lunch with Margaret and her husband at the Aldo Leopold Foundation in Baraboo, Wisconsin.    One of my graduate students works there, and one of the Foundation’s employees had invited Atwood to visit the Foundation’s Legacy Center – until recently the top rated LEED certified building in the U.S. – while she was in nearby Madison for Earth Week festivities.  Atwood accepted, and she and her husband toured the grounds, met Nina Leopold, Aldo’s daughter, and enjoyed (ahem) lunch with me and ten or so other very lucky people. 

Atwood’s most recent novels are Oryx and Crake and The Year of the Flood. Dystopian novels, they are “sidequels” set in the not-so-distant future.  Environmental degradation, genetically modified organisms, and the people involved in trying to save (or not) some semblance of quality human life are the general plot lines,  but this still didn’t prepare me for my first glance of Atwood; she was holding a massive bundle of the invasive garlic mustard which she had ripped out during her morning walk on the Foundation’s land. 

Lunch was incredible.  Margaret and Graeme were both delightful, though I was embarrassed I had not ever read any of Gibson’s work.  More embarrassing was the admonishment I received from Atwood.  When I learned her father was an entomologist,  I remembered the father character in her novel Cat’s Eye, who was an – you guessed it! – entomologist.  Of course, I had to ask if the character in the book was inspired by her father.  I proceeded to be schooled about the difference between fiction and non-fiction, and Atwood pointed out that, these days, if you write fiction people think you are really trying to tell your own story, but if you write non-fiction people assume you are lying.  Of course, she said this much more humorously than I can replicate, and I somewhat masochistically enjoyed the whole experience.  If you have never heard Atwood speak, she has a lovely, quiet, and soothing voice – the perfect pitch at which to serve up sarcasm. 

I recommend any of Atwood’s books.  Some of her older ones will be a tough read for those who can’t imagine what life might have been like 30 or 40 years ago, but I’ve always enjoyed them.  But if you are thinking about reading one for book club, you should definitely read the sidequels.  They meet everyone’s favorite requirements for book club fare: thought provoking, incredible prose, and potentially depressing :)

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April Book Club

More About Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet

Terry Dahlem- Book ClubThe “Vegas” book club selection for April was Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet by Jamie Ford. It is a beautifully written debut novel set in Seattle, about a young Japanese man during World War II. After a fabulous dim sum luncheon prepared by our hostess, our lively discussion began.

There is a lot of depth to the book. Although we were aware of the Japanese internment camps, this novel showed it to us in a personal way. We were fascinated because it is one of the first books we’ve read that delves in to the father-son relationship. The main character, Henry Lee, evokes many emotions in the reader; joy, sadness, loss, love. He is complex and torn between the Japanese and American cultures.

Vegas recommends the book to our friends! On our one to ten scale, it received an average of 8.8. It was easy to read, held our interest and had extremely well developed characters. It provided excellent areas of discussion on family and cultural relationships and the importance of accepting our differences.

Our May selection is The Postmistress by Sarah Blake. Set in 1940, it alternates between Franklin, Massachusetts where war is not yet a reality, and London which is being torn apart by war. I’m beginning to see a pattern in our recent selections! Read it along with us and let me know what you think.

Before I read The Postmistress, I’m enjoying Brava Valentine by Adriana Trigiani. It’s fun and totally different from the books we read in our club. I’ll let you know how it was as soon as I finish! In the meantime, I’d love to hear what you’re reading and what you recommend.

Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet

The Joys of a Book Club

The Vegas Book ClubBook clubs have become more and more popular over the past few years. I am a member of a book club named “Vegas”. You know…what happens there stays there! One might think that nothing exciting can happen at a book club, but you’d be surprised at how much you learn about each other as you’re discussing the issues in a book.

Book clubs are a great way to keep in touch with friends and talk about what’s going on in their lives and the world. We’ve had very lively discussions, especially when the books center on the subjugation of women. Some members have theme meetings where the food reflects the book.

If you’d like to start a book club or are looking for ideas for a current club, readinggroupguides.com is a great resource. They offer ideas on book selection, organizing the club and book reviews. We often use their Discussion Guides which offer questions to get the discussion started.

Do you have some ideas to share? We’re currently reading “Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet”, the debut novel of Jamie Ford. Our meeting is next week and I’ll be back to share our thoughts.